Many men would argue that attracting a girl is no easy task, and in some cases, they are probably right. This varies from person to person, but if you want to ensure that you are successful every time, then there is a skill you have to master. Regardless of how many times you get rejected, the most important thing is to not give up. In the following text, we are going to give you some tips that will help you seduce a Vietnamese girl.
Some women like arrogant macho types, but not Vietnamese girls, and this is the first thing you have to remember. Be confident, but not arrogant. She is not going to be impressed with how much money you have or how successful you are. Instead, show her that you have certain goals in life you want to reach and that she is going to feel secure in the sense that you will keep her safe and never make her feel lonely. Plus, being modest and humble are really important qualities in Asian culture.
Furthermore, Vietnamese culture is patriarchal which means that women want someone strong by their side, someone who is going to provide for their family. They want a leader and not someone who is going to follow them around like a puppy. When presenting yourself on the first date, show her that you are a leader and that you know what you want to get out of life, both in the business and personal sense.
This goes without say, and applies to all the girls around the world – be a gentleman! If you want to woo a woman, you have to act a certain way. There are many things you can do – from being respectful to her and everyone around you (yes, she will notice how you treat a waiter or a valet) to surprising her with flowers and giving her your jacket when she is cold. Another thing that almost no one does anymore and that will impress her is walking on the outside of the sidewalk. Since gentlemen are so rare today, acting this why will for sure leave a great first impression.
Did you know that flirting is a skill that can be learned? Sure, some people need more time and practice than others, but they will all eventually get there. If you have met a girl that you really like, you have to give her a sign i.e. flirt with her. Doing things like touching her hand across the table from time to time, making and holding eye contact, and even teasing her about something will tell her that you are interested in pursuing something more than friendship. You can read more here about flirting techniques if you need some help.
Finally, you have to take care of your appearance. You don’t have to look like a model, but your look is the first thing she sees about you and in some cases, it may determine whether or not she will go out with you. Also, you have to dress properly. No women will be attracted by a man who wears shorts, a t-shirt, and flip flops on every occasion. Clearly, you don’t have to wear suits, but just try to be dressed appropriately.
All in all, we have made a short guide you should follow if you want to charm a Vietnamese woman. Some require more effort than others, but if you don’t cave in, in the end, you will have the girl of your dreams by your side.